It is so very different here, and so wonderful.
The people are extremely
friendly and go out of their way to serve
us. It is really unbelievable.
We have been treated like royalty.
We took trip to the Great Wall
(incredible!!!), Pan Shan mountain (we
hiked up a trail and came to a temple
where we witnessed a buddhist ceremony
(it was a special day of some sort),
Ming tombs of emperors, we went to a seaside
resort, and have explored some
parts of Tianjin city like culture street
and antique street. We have eaten
so many extravagant banquets
that they keep calling, "simple meals." The
food is VERY different and I have eaten
some foods I have never had before
like, tripe, tree fungus, pigeon (although
I did not take any of the heads
with the eye sockets), MANY different kinds
of shellfish, dried whole fish
(scales, eyeballs and all), raw lobster,
and many, many unidentified
objects. I was not brave enough to
try to cAnd some of the males do a great
deal of drinking. It is customary
to toast one another, "Gambay!" and to
finish your glass as a sign of respect
to the person you are toasting. At
one meal, you probably engage in at least
10 individual or group toasts.
Last night was our first night in our dorm.
It was nice to be "home." Our
dorm room is very comfortable, with air
conditioning. I felt like a
princess sleeping in my bed last night
with the white mosquito netting
hanging down around me. I have been
bitten five or six times, but it has
not been a real problem. Today four women
cooked lunch for us in our kitchen
and it was DELICIOUS. They will cook
lunch for us daily. We have so many
people who are here solely to meet our
needs. It is kind of strange to be
waited on so much.
When we walk on the street people stare.
But when you wave and say hello in
Chinese ("Nee how"), they usually grin
widely, somewhat embarrassed, and
respond back with "Nee how". We visited
two middle/high schools and two
primary schools. I can't wait to
show you some of the video footage. At
the primary schools we visited dance, singing,
and keyboarding (piano)
classes, where the children performed for
us. It brought tears to my eyes.
I felt so silly standing there fighting
back the tears because I was worried
about what they would think about the American
teacher crying. It was
wonderful. Definitely a highlight
of our trip. We also spent two evenings
at the homes of Mr. Wang (head of the International
Dept. at the school
where I am teaching, he is really the one
in charge of the exchange
program), and Ms. Sun (his assistant and
master teacher). They were
wonderful evenings. They are such
warm and generous people.
The country is so different, of course.
The standard of living is much
lower. The streets are very crowded
with bicycles and taxis and there does
not seem to be any rhyme or reason to the
traffic flow. There doesn't seem
to be any right-of-way rules, you just
sort of move ahead and everyone flows
around each other. It was kind of
scary at first, as there are many close
calls. When you are walking you can't
stop to wait to let bicycles go by,
you just keep moving at a steady pace and
the bicycle part like the red sea
and move around you. If you stop,
you could cause a major accident. The
standards of cleanliness are very different
than ours, there is much litter
and pollution. And most public restaurants
and bathrooms would not meet our
country's health codes. Most of the
bathrooms are not as bad as I was
anticipating, though. Our dorms are
very clean, however. There is a woman
who comes in every morning to clean.
The countryside is beautiful and we drove
through several country villages.
They consist of primitive brick buildings,
many haystacks, farm animals
(although you do not see many dogs or cats
-- you have to pay a hefty fee to
own a dog). In the country, many of the
doorways simply have beads hanging
in them rather than a door or they have
nothing at all. We saw a street
sweeper that consisted of handmade straw
brooms bound onto a circular disc,
rotating. Another common sight was
peasants spreading the wheat kernels out
in long stretches on the roadway to dry
(you just drive around them). There
are so many sights to tell you about, it
will be nice to have my pictures
and videos to share with you.
Please forward this letter to my friends
and family. It will make it easier
because I will only have access to e-mail
sometimes (I don't want to
monopolize their one computer that is on-line).
If they would like to write
back (I'd love it) have them send it to
you and you can attach it to one of
your notes to me.
Sally